Swinger Clubs - What To Do When You Take Your Wife or Girlfriend To A Swinger Club

Because your wife or girlfriend will be free to become as involved as she is comfortable with, visiting a swingers club is ideal for her to explore the Swinging Lifestyle. Theres no pressure to participate in any activities unless she wants to, and she can choose to just watch and or be watched. Its also a great opportunity to see for herself how couples in the Swinging Lifestyle treat their partners and how they interact with others. Here are a couple of tips to help you have a great night:

• If this is your first time at a swing club go there to socialize, meet people and get comfortable. To minimize any pressure you may be feeling, go with minimal expectations of actually having sex with others. In general, most people do not wind up having sex with anyone their first time at a swing club. Couples who set high expectations when they first get started are often disappointed. If by mutual agreement things go further than you expect, then it will be a pleasant surprise.
• Before you go your wife or girlfriend will probably fret a little over what to wear. Whatever she wears, your job is to reassure her and tell her shes beautiful. Even though it seems like such a simple thing, it can make all the difference in her confidence level.
• Promise her that if she gets uncomfortable at any point and wants to leave, you will do so immediately with no arguments and with no questions asked.
• Women are usually more nervous about the evening as first time visitors, so its especially important for you to not add fuel to your wife or girlfriends nervous fire by bouncing off the walls with the thought of fulfilling all your fantasies. That way shes not worried that youll dive into the first orgy you see!
• Making friends is the key to good swinging, so dont hesitate to introduce yourselves. You never know if that nice couple you meet will be your first swinging encounter! The sooner you speak to other couples, the sooner you will get to know people and the sooner they will get to know you.
• If you feel shy or awkward about just walking up to someone youd like to meet, ask the club staff to introduce you to other couples. Theyre usually very eager and happy to help you feel comfortable.
• Tell others that you are new to swinging. There are lots of experienced couples who would he happy to show you some gentle loving and caring.
• At the very least just plan to have a fun and adventurous time out in a sexually stimulating atmosphere and have great sex together afterwards!

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